Lance Richard Haines
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It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Lance Haines, a vibrant soul who left us far too soon on July 4, 2025. Born on January 8, 1973, Lance’s life was a tapestry of joy, laughter, and steadfast devotion to those he held dear. Lance was a man who embraced life with open arms and a warm heart. His passions were as colorful and varied as the vintage toys he loved to collect. An aficionado of old-school hip-hop and a love for singing karaoke, Lance found happiness in the rhythm of music and the camaraderie of shared joy. Those who had the pleasure of seeing him dance or witness his renditions of Rocky Horror Picture Show songs knew his spirit was infectious and his laughter a balm for the soul. His vibrant personality was often matched by his signature style, with Lance frequently wearing his favorite Adidas gear from head to toe. A hopeless romantic, his heart belonged unequivocally to his beloved wife, Brie. Lance’s devotion to her was unwavering; she was, and always will be, his “dream girl.” His love was a testament to the deep connection they shared, a beacon of light that touched all who knew them. Lance was equally skilled in the kitchen, where he expressed his love through his culinary expertise. An extremely talented chef, he poured his heart into every dish, sharing his passion with family and friends. To him, cooking was love made visible, and experiencing people’s genuine joy and delight as they savored his creations were his greatest reward. In moments of leisure, Lance could be found engrossed in thrift store adventures, engaging in spirited poker games, and indulging his love of game shows and trivia. His quick wit was legendary, always armed with a joke or a quip to brighten someone’s day and elicit a chuckle (or a groan). Lance’s ultimate goal was to make people smile, finding joy in the laughter he inspired and the happiness he spread. Lance leaves behind his wife Brie Haines; his mother, Judy Haines; his stepdaughter, Delilah Chavis; and his brother, Les Haines. He is fondly remembered by cousins, nieces, nephews, and a host of friends and loved ones who were fortunate enough to be part of his journey—a journey characterized by love, humor, music, and really freaking delicious food. Lance’s legacy is one of genuine kindness, passionate living, and unwavering dedication to those he loved. His spirit will continue to inspire all who knew him—reminding us that life is meant to be savored, shared, and danced to its fullest, always with a smile and a joke ready to lighten the way. The family kindly requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to KC Hospice House in Lance’s name, honoring the compassion and care he received in his final hours. Graveside Services will be held at 11:00am on Friday, July 11, 2025 at Floral Hills Cemetery located in Raytown, MO. A celebration of Lance’s life will be held at 6:00pm on August 9, 2025 at Seton Hall of St. Elizabeth’s Church located at 7500 Main St., Kansas City, MO.
Brie so sorry to hear about Lance. If you need anything, please reach out. Love and prayers Rick and Charmene Hughes.
I’m so so sorry to hear this news. All my love and thoughts to your whole family.
Somany wonderful memories! He was a bright light to all those around him
Brie: My deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. May God grant you strength, comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Dear Brie,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences during this incredibly difficult time.
I am praying that God blesses you and your family with comfort, surrounds you with His love, and keeps you in perfect peace. May you find strength in the support of those who care for you and in the cherished memories you hold dear.
Brie,
David and I give you our deepest condolences in this tough time. Love is never ending. We love you!
My condolences wholeheartedly. Lance was definitely his own entity. Amazing cook, dedicated Chef, old soul with a great heart. RIP Chef Haines. ❤️😞
I’m so, so sorry for your loss. He was such an amazing person and an even better friend. My heart is breaking for you.
Brie,
I am so sorry to hear this news. I am thinking of you. I know you have wonderful loving support from family & close friends. Let me know what I can do for you. I’m a phone call away.
So sorry for your loss, Brie. Thinking of you and your family.
My deepest condolences Brie. I’m so sorry for your loss. May the happy memories of Lance bring you peace and comfort. Sending love and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
Lance truly was a bright light to all who knew him. He will be missed greatly by us. His cooking skills were legendary in our family. I’m sure he is beating the saints and Angels in a game of Texas Hold ‘em, and cooking a great meal for the Almighty! We love you!❤️
Brie, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Lance. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brie, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband, Lance. May the memories wipe away your flowing tears. Sending prayers.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you, and I can’t begin to imagine the pain you’re feeling right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find comfort in the love you shared and the memories that will always remain in your heart.
If there’s anything at all you need, I am here for you.
Brie and Delilah, I am so sorry to hear about Lance. You are in my prayers that God will give you comfort and strength in the days ahead.
Brie I am sorry for your loss and I will lift you and your family in prayer. May the Holy Spirit comfort you and keep you and your family
Brie and Delilah, I am deeply sorry to hear about Lance’s passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you both during this incredibly difficult time. May you find comfort in the beautiful memories and the love you shared.
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. If there is anything you need or any way I can support you, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Wishing you strength and comfort in the days ahead and lots of love.
Dear Brie:
Please accept my heartfelt condolences in the loss of your husband. May the pain of your loss be tempered by the joy of the memories you shared. May the love and support of family and friends surround you during this difficult time. Thinking of you and your family and praying your strength.
Angie Green, KPMG
Brie,
Your love and devotion to Lance were evident, as you stood by his side with unwavering support through the health challenges he faced over the past several months. Your dedication is a testament to the incredible love you shared.
My hope is that, amidst the pain, you find comfort and joy in the many fun and memorable times you shared with Lance over the years, and in the love that surrounds you all during this time.
Dear Brie,
Sending you and your loved ones heartfelt condolences for your loss. May you find comfort and peace!
Brie – I am deeply sorry to hear about the passing of Lance. Please know that you and Delilah are in my thoughts and prayers during this incredibly difficult time. May you find comfort and strength in the cherished memories you shared and in the support of those who care about you.
I am truly sorry for your loss. Your unwavering support during my toughest times was a light in the darkness, and I will forever be grateful. Please know that I am here for you now, just as you were for me. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time, and I hope you find comfort in the cherished memories you hold dear.
Brie, sending you my deepest sympathies during this difficult time. I have always admired your incredible strength, grace, and dedication, especially in the way you supported Lance through all of life’s challenges. Your love for him was evident in every word and action. I have no doubt that it provided him with great comfort and joy. Sending you positive thoughts and heartfelt condolences.
Brie, so sorry for your loss! I’m honored and privileged to have crossed this awesome man’s path and I will continue to share my stories and memories of him. Big hug from my family down here in Texas!
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
Brie –
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending warm hugs and tons of support to you and your family…you’re in my thoughts and prayers.
Dearest Brie,
Please remember on the hardest days, that you wouldn’t trade the love to escape the grief. You wouldn’t erase the happiness to avoid the pain. And you WILL endure a lifetime of missing him for the privilege of having loved him. Sending understanding prayers for Strength and Stamina as you navigate through these next few months. 🙏
I am so sorry for your loss, Brie. You are one of my favorite people in the entire world. It pains me to think of you during this time. I love you lady. If I can ever help, please let me know.
Brie and Delilah, sending prayers up for you! Love, Amy Gardner (Elise’s elementary & high school voice teacher)
Lance’s quick wit, laugh, and his true love for you, Brie, will always be remembered. We love you and Delilah so very much.
Brie- Please accept my deepest condolences. I can only imagine the pain you’re feeling, and I want you to know that you are in my thoughts during this incredibly difficult time.
May you find comfort in the love you shared and in the support of those who care about you. If there’s anything you need, whether it’s a listening ear or a helping hand, I’m here for you.
Brie – I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you and Delilah are in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope that in time you find comfort and strength in the beautiful memories you’ve made together and in the support of those around you. Sending love and a very long hug!
Judy, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to the entire Haines family. I will keep you in my prayers.
From Janet, Adventures in Learning