Tracy Loftus
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Tracy Loftus of Lee’s Summit, MO was born on April 10th, 1950 in Kansas City, MO. He joined our heavenly father on October 15th, 2018 at the age of 68.
Tracy was a native Kansas Citian, who grew up as a member of St. Francis Xavier Parish. He was a graduate of Rockhurst High School in 1968 and went on to receive a BA degree from University of Missouri Kansas City (UMKC). The common theme through all of these years was his love of people. He never met a stranger and his humor was always present. Tracy’s work pursuits in the restaurant industry supported his interest to complete college, and eventually, was responsible for opening the restaurant at Lakewood Country Club, as manager. Most importantly, beyond the fine dishes, deep, lifelong friendships that exist today, were created in those kitchen’s. Further on in his work career, he moved on to other professional businesses to include working with his sister & brother-in-law, and finishing with UNBOUND (a non-profit) where his positive personality and sunny disposition made a strong impression on all.
During his formative years, Tracy developed what as to be a lifelong interest in music. This included publicly performing in a band, the Cavaliers, singing with family during car rides, and engaging in conversations with his nephews about the selections of modern music. In addition to his love of laughter, Tracy also had a passion for dogs. His regular routine included walks in the neighborhood, treats at the ice cream shop, and general “horsing around”. His caring and interest in his dogs drove him to regularly refer to them as ‘his kids”. Tracy’s kind heart and interest in others also translated into often offering a sympathetic ear when needed and donating time and money to those in need.
Tracy was the beloved husband of 23 years to Nancy (Peterson) Loftus. A loving stepfather to Thomas Owen (Hamilton OH) and Nicole Owen (Overland Park KS). Supportive Grandfather of 4 (Heather, Hannah, Haily, and Brad), and Great Grandfather of 6. Tracy was a loving brother and uncle to Michael Loftus – KCMO (Conor & Dan), and a loving brother to his two sisters Patricia McAnany – OPKS (Chris & Lindsay), and Mary O’Neill – Boca Raton, FL (Eilish & Ciara).
Tracy was preceded in death and joined in heaven by his brother Michael Loftus, his mother Mary Elizabeth (Mehan) Loftus, and his father Patrick Loftus, as well as other cherished aunts and uncles.
In his honor, a CELEBRATION OF LIFE will be held on OCTOBER 30th @ 2 pm, at his favorite park. Loose Park Garden Center KCMO in the ROSE GARDEN ROOM. Address – 5200 Wornall Rd, Kansas City, MO 64112.
Tracy’s wishes were that in lieu of sending flowers, memorial gifts in Tracy’s honor be made to UNBOUND, 1 Elmwood Ave. Kansas CIty, KS, 66103. Or online at www.unbound.org.
Tracy was a few years ahead of me at Saint Francis Xavier and Rockhurst High School. I can’t say that I knew
him well, however, he was always the kindest and most genuine person. He was just a pleasure to be around.
We have lost another great one! I’m sorry for your loss
Heard about Tracy’s passing from the Denzer’s. Loved his laugh and kind nature. Never met anyone who didn’t like Tracy Loftus. My prayers and sympathy are with you all, his family and many, many friends. Signed – one of the Rockhill kids
I knew Tracy from grade school through working at River Quay in its heyday. He was always fun to be around and excited about everything, usually with a comedic slant. He talked with you, not to you. He was a great guy. RIP. Bob P
Tracy will live in my heart forever. Every time I pick up my guitar to play I will be thinking of him. I will dedicate our guitar mass this Sunday at 10:00am, St Elizabeth Church, to Tracy and Nancy. RIP Tracy, my lifelong friend and band mate. Tom Denzer
My grandpa will always be in my thoughts. I wish my daughter got to meet him because he was such an amazing person. As my daughter grows older I’ll tell her more about her great grandpa Tracy. I’ll love and miss you grandpa. Rest in paradise.
My dearest Tracy, you will forever live in my heart and my memories! Thank you for being so much more than an neighbor, but the kindest friend. I will remember our many conversations and words of wisdom that you shared with me. I promise to take the best care of Nancy while she is next door. I love you man; you made me strive to be the best person that I could be.
Tracy will be dearly missed by all who were blessed to have him as a friend.
An extraordinary, sensitive and caring man who I was blessed to call friend.
We lived a block apart and grew up together.
Our families shared similar circumstances with illness of homebound parents and as such were uniquely supportive of each other.
Janice Sue and I extend our loving thoughts prayers and support to Nancy, Pinky, Mary and the entire family and are so very sorry for your loss.
Love
Janice and Danny
Knowing Tracey was a true blessing. I worked with Tracy in more than one restaurant over the years going back as far as the early 80s . I Remember he always made people feel so welcomed and special ! He always made a point to stop and say hello to customers that weren’t in his station .He had the gift of gab always positive and just what one needed to hear! Everyone loved him! My thoughts and prayers go out to all that loved him! See you on the other side.Maritza
Tracy will be truly missed by all his friends and family.
I am so blessed to have called him my brother in law. He was the best!
My thoughts and prayers for the families. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I love you Tracy , you will always have a place in my heart.??
Tracy, I will miss running into you. You were a blessing as a friend.
Tracy– You were always such a joy to be around!
You will be greatly missed by myself & so many.
Your outgoing pesonality and laughter was wonderful!
May God be with you & all your family & friends.
Love Mike McPhee
Tracy I will miss your caring nature and your humor. Your kindness was extended to all you knew and met. I enjoyed our dinners we had together and conversations. You will be greatly missed.
Tracy,
Will miss you forever, thanks for sharing all your wonderful gifts with me, my family and all our friends. You are so special to all of us.
Love, love, love
John Bauers
To My Dear Family: I am thinking of their mother Mary (my friend and surrogate Mom), Tracy, Michael, Moigy, Pinky, Pat and ALL their children, grandchildren and GREAT-grandchildren…Big Family…big F.
Good Memories: Sometimes I used to babysit Michael,Tracy and Moigy (Mary?) when Pinky went away to college. In fact, the three of them, the younguns’, visited me in San Francisco where I had a big flat,. One trip we took, a memorable excursion, was going up to the wine country, of course. They played tourists while I was working. Great fun.
The last time I was in Kansas City, the “whole family, including kids” met at Strouds’ for the very big, long table dinner, “family style,” of course. Michael and Tracy were there with their kids. Everyone was there. A comforting memory I often think about.
I have a quote from Baba Ram Dass that has helped me deal – goes something like this:
“We are all here to help walk each other home.”
Tracy, you were always one “Bright Shining Soul” in this sometimes dark & dim world.
Thanks for all the times you would come to listen to our music at Blayney’s, back in the day.
The Good Lord has called one of his “strongest spirits” back Home
Tracy,
I flat-ass LOVE ya. You made every shift at Costellos more enjoyable. Bill and Doris will miss you.
I haven’t lived in KC for many, many years and I just heard the news today from my brother Patrick Rice, of Tracy passing. Almost a year has passed and I’m so sorry I just heard this news.
Sending love and peace to all the Loftus family. And May his memory be for many blessing’s ahead.
Tracy, your smile is an imprint on my heart. Forever.??
Tracy was 2 years ahead of me. He in Rockhurst as I was at Loretta academy. A gentleman and a kind person.