David James Conchola
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David James Conchola, 58, of Kansas City, Missouri, passed away on June 28, 2026.
David was born on March 4, 1968. Throughout his life, he was known for his unwavering dedication to his family, his profession, and the community he faithfully served.
He proudly served with the Kansas City, Missouri Police Department for 28 years. During his distinguished law enforcement career, he also provided security for both the Kansas City Royals and the Kansas City Chiefs, a role he thoroughly enjoyed while serving the city he loved.
Outside of his career, David embraced an active lifestyle and had a passion for sports. He loved playing baseball, basketball, and pickleball, and he never passed up an opportunity for friendly competition. He also enjoyed traveling, taking pride in keeping his cars spotless, and, above all, spending quality time with his family and many friends. His warm smile, generous heart, and loyal friendship touched countless lives.
David was preceded in death by his father, David Conchola, Jr.
He is lovingly remembered by his mother, Victoria Vallejo Conchola; his devoted wife, Angie Starnes Conchola; his daughters, Leah Conchola and Lindsay (Daniel) Klockenga; and his cherished grandchildren, Blair and James. He is also survived by his siblings: Debbie (Don) St. Cyr and their children Ashley and Logan; Tina (Jesse) Hernandez and their children Jay and Marissa; and Vince (Andrea) Conchola and their children Jordan and Ala. He also leaves behind his parents-in-law, Ralph and Jane Starnes, brother-in-law Brad (Ingrid) Starnes and their children Lanie and Wyatt, along with many beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, lifelong friends, and all whose lives were enriched by knowing him.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Wednesday, July 8, 2026, at Woods Chapel Church, 4725 NE Lakewood Way, Lee’s Summit, Missouri, beginning at 10:00 a.m. Friends may visit the family at a reception that will follow at the church beginning at 11:00 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in David’s memory to Royals Charities, Woods Chapel Church Student Ministries, or the Benedictine College Baseball program.
David’s legacy of service, integrity, kindness, and love for his family will continue to inspire all who knew him. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
We are so sorry for your loss. No words can ease the pain all of you are feeling. Just know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs from Bill and Linda DeFoor.
Sad to hear about your loss Debbie St. Cry.
Deb so sorry for your loss. Hugs my friend of many years.
My condolences to the family. May you find hope in knowing that love never truly leaves us. The lives of those we cherish continue to shape who we are, and their legacy lives on through the memories, lessons, and love they shared.
My condolences to David’s Family. It was a pleasure knowing him. RIP
Our condolences to Angie and family. Dave was a man of character. He loved serving others, valued his friendships, and faithfully used the gifts and experience God had given him to keep people safe. His presence on our Security Team made our church a better and safer place, and his friendship enriched all of our lives. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered.
The Cudmores
Angie and family, I am so very sorry for you unbearable loss! David was always such a sweetie and we enjoyed being with you all at all the dance events we had together. We are just so very sorry! Prayers for comfort and peace in the coming days, months and years.
Dave was a great man. I enjoyed getting to know him through church. My heart hurts for you all. I wish you all peace and comfort as you navigate through this difficult time.
Angie, Leah, and Lindsay,
Scott and I, Madison and Bailey, want to offer our condolences to your family. Our hearts were broken when we heard the news that Dave had passed away. I can see his smiling face at church, always friendly, kind, and cheerful. He will be missed! Bless you and know that he is with the Lord!
To the Conchola Family: I am so terribly sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you and the family.
My heart goes out to all of you.
I’m sorry I can’t be with you at this time but, please know my heart and prayers are with you.
Mom StCyr
And the family
In Maine
So sorry to hear of Dave’s passing. He was a one-of-a kind human, and my life was blessed in the short time I got to know him and his beautiful family. May God be with you during this time of grieving, and the memories of him live on forever in your hearts.
Sending my heartfelt sympathy to Deb and the entire family. Wishing you comfort, peace, and strength in the days ahead. May the love of family and friends surround you, and may the memories of your loved one bring you comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Dave’s passing. Dave was a wonderful Woods Chapel Student Ministry volunteer. We co-led a group of students during a Senior High Mission trip to Beaumont, TX. I have great memories of serving with him that week–he had a kind and steady presence, was a wonderful role model for students, and entertained us with police department stories. I am holding those memories with me and keeping the Conchola family in my heart.
We loved Conch and will miss him so much. Angie, we are holding you and the entire family up to our Lord in prayer–may God continue to give you strength for each day….love you!
My condolences to the entire Conchola family. I first met Dave when he came to Benedictine in the late 1980’s. Dave looked like a Major league player from the moment he first put on his baseball uniform. Although he had great success as an athlete, it was his lifelong influence in helping others that strongly stood out. Dave truly lived and led a Major league life. He touched so many lives and will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Leah,
I am so sorry to hear about your and your families loss. My heart goes out to you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings.
Prayers and hugs Debbie to you and your family. May wonderful memories bring you all comfort and peace.
Kelli and Kenny
Dearest Vickie- our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your memories bring you comfort and may you feel Gods love for you during this time of sorrow.
We cherish the wonderful memories of Dave participating in the KC Royals Fantasy Camp and seeing him at the K where his infectious smile brightened every moment. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family during this time. May you find comfort and peace in sharing the many special memories of Dave.
Angie, I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family.
Dave’s dedicated service to the Kansas City Community is something that will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with Angie, their girls and all his family for their loss. May your cherished memories wrap you in comfort during this sad time. I will forever look for Dave to be standing by the Royals dugout. 🙏
My deepest condolences go out to Dave’s beautiful family: Angie, Leah, Lindsay, Dave’s siblings Debbie, Tina, and Vince, and my beloved pretty aunt Veeks. I will miss Dave dearly, as he was truly a great man, father, son, cousin and friend to many. He touched many lives with his kindness and his willingness to help anyone at any given time throughout his lifetime. He was a big part of my childhood with us growing up together, playing baseball, football, tennis and any other activities or mischief we would choose to get in to together. There are so many great memories I will cherish being with him throughout my life and so many times that I will remember him offering his help and support to myself and anyone who needed it.
I will miss you and think of you often, and I will always remember the great memories we shared growing up together, those scenes will play in my mind forever and will always help me at times when I miss you most. Rest in peace cuz.
Your old cuz Marcos
I met Dave when we went to San Diego for a multidisciplinary training on strangulation sponsored by Rosebrooks. Our team brought the information back to improve the response and support for victims of violence in Kansas City. Over the years we have caught up at Royals games. His kind heart and support to his community will be a legacy for generations. My sincere condolences to his family. You will all be in my prayers.
We are saddened to learn of Dave’s passing. We have so many great memories from missions trips, Royals, and Chiefs games. Our thoughts and prayers are with Angie and the entire family. May Dave rest in peace with our Lord; and may Angie and the family find strength, comfort and peace during this time.
I met Dave at the PD. He was smiling then, just as he did all day, every day. Even when we were swamped with work, he would always say, “Let’s get through this,” and offer to help in any way he could.
Dave, you were so loving and kind. You never hesitated to let everyone know how important family is, and how much yours meant to you. I am so thankful for the laughs and stories we shared. You are dearly missed and thank you for simply being you. I know we aren’t supposed to ask why, because we were truly blessed with the time we had with you.
Sending many hugs and prayers to you and your beautiful family.
Dave was my first friend when I transferred to Benedictine. He was kind and welcoming and was a true friend. We shared a love of sports and he helped me pick my new jersey number by sharing his secret tricks of success While we lost contact over the years , I randomly ran into him at a chiefs game and he helped me to move the handicapped seats I had purchased for my father to an area better suited to my fathers disabilities without me asking. He simply saw my father’s struggles and stepped up to help and turned a difficult day into a great event.
Dave was truly a special soul.
Conch and I were teammates at Benedictine. He was as kind then as he was to the end. He was a leader in the best way: not a lot of words but he led with his actions, and his humility. He was the “elder” on a young team and he taught us how to compete every day and play to win. He had it all: cannon for an arm, hit for average and hit for power. I loved watching him run. It was like he was on skates. Everything he did was graceful. He could play almost any position and was excellent at all of them. But in the outfield it was all on display. And like many on that team, we kept in touch. My last call with him was this Spring to see if he would like to chaperone a Benedictine Baseball mission trip to the DR and he was excited about the idea. When we heard of his passing there were many phone calls and messages between his old Raven teammates. We are all so sad, but to a man we are better for having known him as so many others have said. The 2027 Ravens will honor Conch’s memory on their game hats (thank you Coach Peterson!) Godspeed, #27.
My Condolences to the family. David was a wonderful person.
You are family to me. I love you all. So many childhood memories, summer nights at 3-2 stadium and hanging out at each of our homes. Jim, you are loved and missed. I wish you had more time with family and friends this side of heaven but will trust in God’s timing and purpose.