Matthew Lee Decker
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Matthew Lee Decker was born December 25, 1966 to Verbin Decker and Andrea Chapman in Oklahoma City, OK. Matthew passed away on Thursday, October 13, 2016 at home in Grandview, MO.
Matthew’s father preceded him in death. Survivors include his mother, Andrea Driller of Grandview; sister, Tiffany and her husband John Edmondson of Kansas City, MO; his beloved and constant companion of 11 years his blue healer, Sky; aunts and uncles Sharon Carroccia of Northfield, NJ, John Chapman of Kansas City, MO, Paul Chapman of Philadelphia, PA, Mark Chapman of Kansas City, MO, Aimee Harness of Grandview, MO, Edwina Burns of Michigan; cousins Major T. Chapman of Lawrence, KS, Chris Decker of Denver, CO, and many other cousins and friends.
Matthew was known as the “Pepper Guy” at the Grandview Farmer’s Market and in regional networks because of his expertise in exotic hot peppers of many varieties as well as specialty herbs and spices and cactus plants. He was very proud of his Oklahoma background, enjoyed gourmet cooking, hunting, fishing, and the beauty and solace of nature. His previous training and career was in welding and working in the oil fields.
While Matthew was comfortable in solitude, he was also known for his “country boy” charm with a polite, humorous, helpful attitude that included people of varied interests and personalities in his circle of friends.
Visitation will be held Tuesday, November 1 at 6pm with Memorial Service at 7pm at Grandview United Methodist Church, 12613 Grandview Road, Grandview MO 64030. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given to Kansas City Pet Project www.kcpetproject.org.
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Andrea, we are so sorry to hear about your son. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Chris and Mindy
R.I.P. Matthew Decker. You will be truely missed by your classmates and friends in Wilburton, Ok. God Bless you.
Kevin Clark
Class of 1985
I will miss your sharing of recipes. RIP Matt. Prayers for the family.
Matt, we had a lot of good times going to school together. Seems so wrong that the best of the best is gone at such an early age. I will always remember the friendship we had. Fly high my brother.
I will forever miss our constant texts and conversations .I couldn’t have asked for a better best friend than what you were to me and for that I will forever be grateful . Forever in my heart and never to be forgotten! My heart and prayers go out to the family may the good Lord comfort and carry you through this time of loss.
Andrea my heart goes out to you and your family .It is hard to lose a child not matter the age or circumstance . I will pray for you and your family may the posts on this bring you comfort alas if you or your daughter need anything please let me know a loving friend.
Tim and I are so sorry for your loss . Tim Forwoodson of 1981 Donna Nickell Forwoodson class of 1983
Matt was a good friend and teacher to me, and I took his expertise and advice completely for granted. I am sorry for his passing, and I am truly going to miss him. My sincerest condolences to his family and other friends.
Matt, I hadn’t seen you in years, but we communicated on Facebook a few times. I remember growing up, when is spend the night with Tiff, I’d wish I had a high brother like you. Always so nice, although I’m sure you guys had your differences, what siblings don’t. Rest well my friend. God Bless. Too Ms Andrea & Tiffany, may God bless you with strength a in your time of sorrow. I love you both.
RIP Matt you will be missed Robbie Culberson Class of 1983 Wilburton Okla
A great loss felt by many. I will miss him terribly.
Driving home yesterday thinking about your love for White Bluff in Damon Valley, now everytime I look up you will be forever on my mind. Til we meet again Matt Decker. Praying for your family in this time of sorrow.
Sheri Saxon Class of 85
I will save that hug for the next time we meet ????
Driving home yesterday thinking about your love for White Bluff in Damon Valley, now everytime I look up you will be forever on my mind. Til we meet again Matt Decker. Praying for your family in this time of sorrow.
Sheri Saxon Class of 85
I will save that hug for the next time we meet ????
Andrea and family, please know our deepest condolences, thoughts, and prayers are with you. With our love and respect, Neil, Dana, and Sarah Sowerby
You were always such a good guy. I haven’t seen you in years but you were one of those people that stood out from the crowd even though you weren’t boisterous or sought attention. You will always be the soft spoken, mannerly boy I grew up with. Peace be with you and your loved ones.
So sorry for your loss. He helped me out at the farmers market this spring. Such a kind man.
Matt, I am going to miss our conversations and the joy you brought to my life. Thank you for always having the time to listen and a big thank you for introducing me to the world of hot peppers. You are missed my friend.
Tom and I are sorry for your loss. We want you to know you are in our prayers and asked that God gives you and your family comfort and peace.
Andrea
You have our deepest condolences and prayers and thoughts go out to you your family and loved ones.
May God give you piece and comfort in the days to come.
TOPS CLUB MEMBERS
Saying Goodbye is not easy for any of us and our hearts are saddened by your passing. We will miss the simple Good Morning and the honesty in our conversations. Your journey has come to its end and as we say goodbye, we take with us memories that will last us a lifetime. We are grateful for the times that we have shared with you and the time that you have given to us. Rest In Peace, Brother Matt Decker, Rest In Peace.
Andrea, no parent should have to go through the loss of her/his child. My heart breaks for you. You are in my prayers. Matthew has found peace. May the peace of God’s love give you comfort.
My best childhood friend growing up in the colony, I will always cherish those memories. May you be at peace, one day we will hunt together again.
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of our “Pepper Guy”. Matt has been a staple at the Grandview Farmers Market since we opened several years ago. His presence will be a void at the Market. RIP Matt. Condolences to the family.
Annette Turnbaugh
Alderman Ward 2, City of Grandview
There are no words…I have known you almost all my life. You were more like a big brother to me. Will cherish all of our garden, recipe, and love of life talks! Prayers for comfort and peace Andy and Tiffany…..love you all!!
I will miss you dearly Matt.
I’m truly saddened about the loss of my dear friend Matt , we worked many years together at Webcoat and we knew each other from Wilburton. May the Lord give you peace and comfort during this time .RIP Matt
You are missed but will not be forgotten. We had many wonderful conversations and you helped me through a very dark time in my life which I will never forget. Thank you.
Much love,
Andi: I was so sorry to hear about your son’s passing. Many at the view have asked about your absence & also send their heartfelt sympathies, especially Milt, Frank, Luann, Stu, Pat, Josie, 7 Dave. Also missing you at dance class are Gene & I can’t think of his girl friends name right now. Everyone looks forward to having you back & are share your sorrow as best as we can.
Corky
Andi, I am so sorry for your loss of physical presence with Matthew. You seemed so proud of him and what he was doing around your home – planting peppers, tomatoes, etc. You are such a loving and supportive woman. Know that I am praying for you and your family during this time of your lives. May God bless you and keep you safe.
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you Tiffany and your mom. I hope that you will take comfort in those around you.
Lisa Lundeen