Robert Cody Lucas
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Robert Cody Lucas, 29, of Overland Park, KS passed away August 10, 2021 from a car accident. Funeral services will be held at 5:30pm, Sunday, August 15, 2021 at The Foundry Church, 8835 Lackman Rd, Lenexa, KS 66219. Visitation will be held prior to the service at 4:30pm.
Cody was born August 29, 1991 in Leavenworth, KS. Cody was an advocate for mental health and substance abuse. He was artistic and enjoyed drawing, writing poems, and music. Mostly, Cody enjoyed spending time with family and friends.
He is survived by: mother, Elizabeth J. Epps; father, Alan M. Epps; sister, Aspyn Epps; biological father, Joe Derezinski; grandmother, Jane Robertson; aunts, Sarah Anderson and Lori Rea; uncles; Michael Rea and Sean Barrientos; Cousin, Candice Spath; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
May God be with you all; we are keeping you in our it prayers.
You at in our thoughts and prayers we love you Alan and Beth.
We pray for Godās peace and comfort to be with each of you. Depend on Him to hold you tightly in His love.
Thinking of you all and lifting you up Iām prayers
Our family is praying for you all. Iām praying you feel Godās arms around you.
Our deepest condolences to you all. Praying you feel God’s love surround during this difficult time.
I’m so sorry. Praying for God’s peace and comfort for all.
Iām so sorry. Iām praying for yāall to find peace in such a difficult situation.
We are so sorry. Prayers for you and the family. May you feel Godās loving and comforting arms.
Iām sorry for your loss. Sending prayers from the whole Fastenal team to your family. We really enjoyed working with Cody.
I’m deeply hurt to hear this news. He had a brilliant mind and a kind heart. He will be missed. My prayers for his loved ones at this time.
Ohana, our hearts are filled with sorrow and our eyes with tears. May Robert’s beautiful soul rest in peace. Jennifer and I give our condolences to the entire family.
We’re so sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Praying God’s strength and comfort hold you during this painful time.
May God’s blessings Be on you Cody & All of Cody’s Family We love you & will miss you we will see you Again in Heaven.
Thinking and praying for your family at this time. So sorry for your loss.
Thinking and praying for your family at this time. So sorry for your loss.
We will see you again in Heaven. I am praying for your family. My love goes out to you and your family. I know how much you will be missed! Love Aunt Linda and Uncle Leroy
You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for what you must endure. Love to you all.
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. We love you and pray for comfort and peace.
We are so sorry for your loss and offer our condolences. You will be in our prayers.
We pray for comfort and stamina as you cope with your loss. So sorry.
I just found out of his passing today. I’m so sorry to hear of his passing. He was a good friend and such a kind soul while I had the opportunity to know him My heart goes out to his family and he will be greatly missed.
May our LORD give you strength and peace in the days to come.
We are hurting for you, and you are in our prayers. You are a wonderful family. Love you.
I worked with Cody and enjoyed getting to know him. He had a sweet spirit and a fabulous sense of humor. I will miss him very much. My heart aches for his family, and I continue to keep you all in my prayers.
Praying God’s peace and healing during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is grieving with yours.
Blessings Family,
Ricky, Glenda Johnson & Family
So sorry for your loss. Thinking and praying for you and your family.
Our hearts ache with you. May your memories bring you comfort and peace
I am very late to this, he was like a dad to me. I miss him dearly. I pray for his actual family that they are happy. I hope you guys are at peace. š
Five years have changed many things. They have changed me. There are wounds that eventually become stories. Then there are wounds that become part of the architecture of who you are.
Love doesn’t always end when a heartbeat does. Sometimes it continues in the choices we make, the people we become, and the quiet moments when a song reminds us that some connections are never measured by how long they lasted, but by how deeply they changed us.
Losing you, wasn’t something I simply “got over.” It reshaped the landscape of my heart. Missing you never became easier. I just became stronger at carrying it. I didn’t lose a person. I lost the version of myself that only existed when you were alive. The world kept moving. Mine never found the same rhythm again. The hardest part wasn’t the day you left. It was discovering the world expected me to keep existing in one that no longer made sense. I survived your death. Living with it has been the harder task.
Your absence became another presence. It sits quietly beside me wherever I go. I no longer wait for you to come back. I still catch myself wanting to tell you about my day. People assume grief is learning to live without someone. They never tell you the harder truth: learning to keep living while the life you imagined died with them.
There are people I’ve met since you died who know the woman I became, but they’ll never know the woman you loved.
I didn’t just lose the person I loved. I lost the witness to who I am becoming. Every version of me since has carried the quiet knowledge that the one person I wanted to meet her never will.
Some souls leave this world. Some never leave your heart.
Robert Cody Lucas… I miss you..
You did not leave an empty space in my life. You became the shape around which the rest of my life had to grow. There are days when I laugh without guilt, days when I find peace, days when I feel whole. But even then, there is a room inside me with your name on the door. It is not locked. It is not abandoned. It is simply where love continues after it has nowhere left to go.